How To Handle Rejection - Lies And Deception Profile Misrepresentation

By Perry L. Duff

Here is a forum post about people who lie on dating sites

their profiles on various dating sites. This is what I talk

I always say about how to handle rejection. You must

have confidence in yourself if you want to meet

that significant other.

Lying never reveals confidence. It reveals low self esteem,

and self doubt. And, no matter how good your intentions, it

will only blow up in your face. Remember, what people first

impression is a lasting one. And lying is absolutely the

you can do to hurt yourself.

To begin with, this Forum poster said that this persons

profile claimed to be in their twenties, but was really in their thirties,

gave a false employment profile to seem more likable,

and didn't look anything like their photos.

What would you handle this situation if you met a person

person who turned out to be nothing like their profile?

Some of these are really good replies. You need to check

these out.

One replier says when you are facing a phony, you should

tell them that you don't like their false profiles and then

their falsehoods, then leave. If they lie from the

beginning, whats to stop their lying from being perpetual?

Another states that you should get up and leave this

immediately. That a person like this can be dangerous. I

me, this is a little bit over kill, but they are right on

do believe that you shouldn't stick around. What kind of

around and see what problems such a person like this could

around to see anyway.

Another says that people like this won't stop this behavior

know what they are doing, and won't stop even if you told

on their profiles. I like this reply. When it comes to

can't really trust people like this to come out, and

come to you with the truth. They really don't want people to

them for who they truly are, because they think you will be

like what you see. They don't like themselves, and they know

who they are. Again, low self esteem.

This next one is a really good reply, because this

was amused by all of the people who show themselves on these

false profiles. This replier believes that meeting a person

person they really want to be with anyway. This person,

stated that the date who showed up for a drink, had a glass

eye, and that another smelled like piss. I mean talk about

outrageous!

This next replier, as far as I'm concerned, went way too far

in this on line/offline dating. I know that you have to be

be careful of the people you meet, but hey, it's really not

best not to 'waste 8 seconds with a

fraud/liar/parasite/predator'. That 'time is money'. Money

fraud/liar/parasite/predator'. That 'time is money'. Life

more to life than money you know? That you could be doing

other things with your time that's more productive. That

this person has committed 'fraud'. I mean whoa! Hold up!

This replier says that you should depart in about 8 seconds,

I do like that this replier states that you should leave

in as soon as 8 seconds, with no explanation. I can really

with this one. I mean after all, you are under no obligation

like 'hardware damaged', 'amoral', 'pathological', and

'morally retarded'. But, most of all is that this replier

retarded'. What's really strange is that this replier keeps

OK dude, I got it. White man speak with forked tongue.

Well, I fully get the idea. This Pale face has a forked tongue. I Got

the concept. Now go light a blunt and blow your brains out.

Obviously lying is something this guy takes a little too

seriously. I mean, I do too, but, I'm not looking to

crucify/exorcise the damn person. I simply realize that

can't do anything about, so move on. You can't do anything

about the things people do. But you can do something about

the things YOU do.

This next replier says that a person they met was actually

This next replier states that the person who showed up at a

meet was actually 5 times their weight! What a load! This

replier also said that this person 'let themselves go to

about some of the other replies. And that is, they try to be

thing about some of the other replies. That is, after they have

some of these superficial people, they try to be 'polite'

not like Simon Cowell of AI too much, I have to agree with

like him too much, I have to agree with Simon Cowell of AI.

with him. He's a very arrogant man, but the contestants need

Making people face the reality of their decisions is the

Sometimes you have to let people face the reality of their

somebodies conscious, but at some point, you will have have

SOB, but at some point, you are going to have to put your

going to have to let liars know where your position is with

across as a cold, frost giant, but you don't need the

want to swallow crap either.

What's your reply?

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